Japanese has quite a lot of these pairs of verbs where one is transitive and one is intransitive. They verbs in each pair are obviously closely related to each other, and there are definitely some patterns in them, but the patterns are often of the “mostly works this way” type rather than “hard rule that’s always true”.
For a good long thread about this you can try:
Personally my suggestion is that it’s probably helpful to have a read through the thread and get an overview of how the pairs tend to look, but that actively memorising transitive/intransitive pair patterns isn’t necessary. It works to learn individual verbs, and let exposure to the language do the rest.