Why is there such a defeatist attitude around learning japanese?

Two levels? If only Japanese were that simple. :stuck_out_tongue:

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Mhh, that does make sense :wink: Might have been a bit too much subtext/background for me to understand it somewhat out of context.

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I don’t think I’ve seen any prevailing social attitude towards Asian languages.

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Agreed. I like to add that I know quite a few Japanese learners, from online interactions (not here) who are obsessive, or compulsive, perfectionists and they nitpick on everybody whose progress is too slow, who mispronounces something, misunderstands a grammar point, or who wants to approach Japanese language learning differently than them
 You just have to avoid such people if their criticism comes from a wrong place and it’s not constructive.

Plus, there are plenty of people who also want to dump their own problems, and failings, on others to justify their inability to overcome hurdles. You really just have to ignore/avoid them, otherwise they drag you down until you conform with their views.

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I guess if thinking that japan is weird is racist, that makes me a big fat racist, although that is a part of the reason I’m learning japanese to begin with.

I think calling swaths of people who have no real reason to care about the japanese language racist is a bit inflammatory. Of course it doesn’t make sense to people that don’t know it.

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You not an inferior speaker, you just have an accent, if I understand you correctly;) As you say, the message is a lot more important that native-like perfection in pronunciation. The language is about connecting and communicating with people.

Sometimes, learners of different language see it as an end in itself, almost like an intellectual badge of honor where if you don’t speak and sound like a native speaker you are a “failure”
 I think that’s just too “constricting” and prone-to-fail approach to learn a language.

I’m is the same boat, English is my fourth language I learned, by far the most fluent, even though I started learning it at 21. I put my ability to express myself in English even above my native language. Living and working 20+ years in the U.S. surely has something to do with it;)

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I think misrepresenting what people actually said, deliberately trying to misunderstand them and twisting words is a bit inflammatory. I have repeatedly stated that there is a difference between subjective statements like “this doesn’t make sense to me” and seemingly objective attitudes like “this does not make sense”. This is like the fourth time I am trying to convey that point. I do not think it is particularly hard to understand.

And yes, the attitude that “Japan is weird” as contrasted to our perfectly sensible Western culture is inherently racist. I am sorry if saying that out loud offends you.

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Yeah lmao. It was a video I saw awhile ago but I can probably try to dig it up later. Dude claimed to be fluent and I think he was at some store talking to people in their native language and filming it.

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Did anyone else read that in a William Shatner/Captain Kirk voice in their head?

Who said western culture is sensible? I sure didn’t.

Also I’ve never seen an objective societal attitude that “this doesn’t make sense and will never because it’s japanese.” Could you point out some examples of that.

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The power of positive, but realistic, thinking;) I’m the same. I revel in differences, they are interesting to me. I’m curious why it is structured and said in such a way
 Oh, the beauty of Japanese
 It’s still a big unknown for me but that’s what makes it exciting. There is nothing that curious mind cannot solve.

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They study of the origin and evolution of languages is an interesting topic. I read quite a bit of old stuff and it is interesting to see how the English language has changed. Sometimes when I start reading something old after having been reading recent stuff it can take me a chapter or two to shift to a state where I can read it without stumbling all the time. My wife assures me that reading old Japanese is the same for her.

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always disappointing when I think I have the right word in time for the right occasion and the listener is like “ええ?” because I’ve either mispronounced it slightly or they are just not sure which of the many words I might be saying


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No, I can’t, because that is not what I have said.

What I have said is that

there is a difference between subjective statements like “this doesn’t make sense to me” and seemingly objective attitudes like “this does not make sense”.

“Objective” and “seemingly objective” are not the same thing.

I have no idea what an “objective societal attitude” even is.

I have also never suggested that people hold an attitude of “X doesn’t make sense because it is Japanese”. Not once. What I have suggested is a contrast between people unassumingly treating their own culture as perfectly normal while treating things from other cultures as “weird” without a) making an effort to understand and contextualize them or b) even considering that maybe our normative assumptions of what is “normal” might not be objective.

And that can begin with such harmless attitudes as “it’s so weird how the Japanese eat raw fish” - which, given Sushi’s popularity in the West seems to be in decline but it’s still something my grandma says. (She also says that onions are food for Jews so personally I am inclined to distrust her culinary advice.) It’s in the whole “anime is so weird” thing, where many people still believe that Japanese culture consists entirely of tentacle porn. And, as I have asserted before, it is part of the attitude that the Japanese language “does not make sense”.

None of these attitudes would be in any way problematic if people were equally willing to denounce their own culture as weird in the same way, but many people absolutely LOSE THEIR SHIT when you call the Christian tradition of consuming the corpse of Jesus Christ a bit weird. Or, just the other day, someone on this forum commented how nonsensical the Japanese obsession with blood types is (and, well, that is basically scientifically proven to be complete bullshit so I don’t disagree in the slightest), but how often do we stop and think “how weird is it that every major newspaper has a horoscope” (which is equally scientifically proven to be complete bullshit)?

Again: the issue is not that people are critical of other cultures. The issue is in being overly nitpicky, dismissive or smug towards other cultures while treating ours as “normal”, without ever acknowledging that normalcy is socially constructed, it is not god-given or objective. It is a comparison.

Now you can keep going “i’ve never seen any of that happen so it can’t possibly exist” and immediately write another comment that blatantly ignores what I have said in favor of some strawman version of what you think I’ve said, or you could take a bit of time to honestly consider what I have said, and see if maybe you notice things in the future that you have not previously noticed. It’s your choice.

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I remember the first time I went to Japan, in college, after 2ish years of Japanese study. I could get around with my broken Japanese, but there was a guy I worked with who seemed to be able to say or understand anything. He said he had been studying Japanese for a year and a half. He was a Mormon missionary. Whatever language training program the Mormons (I mean, the Church of Latter Day Saints) use, it must be good.

Anyway-- proof that it is possible.

Also, I don’t know why people complain about Japanese grammar. Yes, It’s really different from English, but I actually think it’s more sensible than English grammar. Although, so far, it does seem like Japanese authors favor super long sentences, which are hard to parse in any language.

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funny, a couple of days ago there was the opposite thread about “Toxic kanji learners” who “claim learning kanji as in all the joyo kanji and passing the JLPT N2 to be an absolute cake walk” :cowboy_hat_face:

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I’m gonna jump into this discussion, even though the better part of my brain is telling me not to


The way I see, and define, racism is that it needs not only a statement but you need to act on that statement, or figure the intent behind that statement and that’s somehow lost nowadays when people throw the word racism around on the Internet. Even worse, they seem to assume for everyone what their true intent was, and that’s a bit patronizing
 But I guess that’s the Internet for you where lot of times we speed up our conversations, jump to assumptions, and go from zero to ballistic in seconds.

I cannot know just from a sentence “Japanese is weird” if the person saying it meant it in a racist way. Sure, it might be insensitive and idiotic to phrase it in such a way but unless I know for sure that they intended it to hurt, or demean, someone, I should not jump to such conclusion right away. The in-between step of finding out the “intent” should not be eliminated, otherwise it just leads to misunderstanding, at best, and antagonizing, vilifying, at worst. If I interact with someone who says something like that a bit longer, speak with them, listen to them, I can definitely find it out very quickly if they are racist and have no problem to call them out, or be call out myself for saying such stupid things.

Overall, I agree with what you are saying, I just read too much Chomsky to care about semantics:) Peace.

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I personally dont think japanese is difficult, just time consuming. I’ve seen too many dumb rules and specific spellings and incomprehensible grammar in both portuguese and english to care.

In fact, japanese is way easier in some areas than english, especially phonetics. Almost the sounds of the language are easy to make and easy to distinguish, and I already knew how to do them anyways. I had to spend 4 days learning some of the english phonetics, and my accent is still thick.

Its just a game of learning rules and slowly adapting them onto your brain, if it makes sense

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Making a statement is an action in itself; and as I have outlined before, racist action is usually rooted in racist speech and in racist thought. There is, obviously, a difference between having thoughts with racist connotations and building a concentration camps. I have also said that before. I have also stated that I do not intend to attack anybody’s personal opinions, I just want to suggest people examine a specific societal attitude through a critical lens. But this is the internet and people jump to assumptions and go ballistic in seconds so that nuance seems to be lost on some people.

I cannot know just from a sentence “Japanese is weird” if the person saying it meant it in a racist way. Sure, it might be insensitive and idiotic to phrase it in such a way but unless I know for sure that they intended it to hurt, or demean, someone, I should not jump to such conclusion right away.

You are right! And I am not jumping to that conclusion! I am merely stating that this attitude is rooted in widely-held racist beliefs, not that the person making this statement is personally, actively, consciously engaging in acts of racism.

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I don’t know why you’re giving “weird” such a negative connotation. When people say that something is weird, it doesn’t not mean that it’s therefore bad. If other cultures weren’t weird to people, they wouldn’t be other cultures anymore. Of course foreign cultures are not normal to people, because it’s not what they’ve known for their entire lives. Of course what people think is normal isn’t objective, it’s relative to how they’re raised. If that’s being racist, you’re on the fast track to convincing me that racism isn’t inherently bad.

I’m not deliberately trying to misrepresent what you’re saying, what you’re saying actually doesn’t make any sense to me. You’ll have to better describe what you mean by “seemingly objective”. If you’re using it in a way of “this person believes their culture is the true way to live” kind of way, then yeah, those guys are stupid. However, that doesn’t mean that you should assume that when someone says “x is weird” that they mean that their way of life is the only right way. If this is some strawman, feel free to better explain what you mean.

Also me saying that I haven’t seen something happen doesn’t mean that I don’t think it exists. You’re putting words in my mouth again.

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