The problem is, that as soon as you start to see yourself, a human being, a walking monkey, a vertebrate with the ability to make sound with your throat, tongue and whatever. as “Japanese”, you won’t be able to either speak, learn or teach a foreign language anymore.
Because the strongest point of being “Japanese” is exactly that, that “Japanese” have their special language only they can naturally use compared to the foreigner who are entirely different kinds of animals.
Look at a parrot, they can sing like a mobile phone, but once they gain a certain degree of consciousness and identify as “bird” they can’t do that anymore.
Same goes for humans. Babies can do that because they don’t identify.
John Manjiro could do it because he lost his Japanese identity. He was excluded accidentally.
A Japanese learning a foreign language succesfully and a Japanese teaching Japanese to a foreigner successfully is an extreme double bind situation. If they would succeed doing it automatically they wouldn’t be “Japanese” any more. This is something that goes very deep and people are not aware of it consciously. By failing to learn English you are Japanese. Really, just listen to random people.
That’s why I came to believe it is better to learn Japanese from someone who doesn’t identify as Japanese, like someone with a Japanese parent but being raised anywhere outside of Japan or a foreigner who studied Japanese seriously.
I saw this happening life in front of my eyes to my kids who changed to Japanese schools.
It is a very interesting phenomenon though and doesn’t happen so much in other cultures I think but also with dialects. People with a local dialect also believe that outsiders cannot speak or learn it which is not true, it follows even simpler rules usually. What I mean is, that the difference between two languages is usually higher than the difference between a language and one of its dialects. But people don’t learn dialects because they can’t identify as a local mushroom farmer.
But to understand this one has to read the Nihonjinron and honestly who does it?
The easier and also foolproof method is to do the opposite of the language learning tips from Japanese.
- You can’t learn Kanjis other than writing them over and over again
- Mnemonics are inferior and only for the weak
- You have to start with polite language
- You don’t need to study Keigo
- Don’t bother to study pitch accent
- Learn by studying a lot of grammar that’s very rare
- etc