I feel like I’m exactly in the same situation as you. I’m aware of all grammar resources that were mentioned, have bunpro subscription, Genki I and some books/manga in Japanese, follow community bookclubs. But I cannot build a habit of working on grammar consistently. I prioritize slow and steady WK daily progress, and that eats almost all of my free time. I feel very strongly that without grammar I won’t be able to progress in the language itself, so grammar is the must.
In couple of days Absolute Beginners Bookclub will start reading a book for 2nd graders. I promised myself to study at least one grammar point (bunpro point) from each page, will see how it goes.
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