my husband “forced” me to watch anime now and then and suddenly it just clicked
Ha, this is what happened to me! I made some weak attempts at learning Japanese in the past and it was something I always “sort of” wanted to do. Schooling and whatnot was intense and never presented the opportunity to force myself to learn one seriously, but ~2 years ago I finished grad school and settled into my job, so that new “free time” was there alongside the ability to devote some brain power to the task.
One of my good friends has tried to get me to watch anime for probably 15 years at this point; I watched an episode of this or that, but would always say “nah, not for me”. Maybe it is just a different life stage or I watched the one that broke the wall, but I’ve had a total change of heart around it and have been actively trying to find new series to watch as I finish up others.
But it was a big decision in my move towards putting a serious effort towards learning Japanese. I’m a big fan of trying to blend learning with fun / activities. I figured that if I was going to sit here and watch a bunch of these shows, I would double up and try to make it meaningful by using it as supplemental material while learning the language. I’m still short when it comes to vocab and whatnot, but it has been very rewarding to catch words here and there, or see text on the screen like a sign and recognize what it says / parts of it.
Keep it up!