Suggestion: Time Account Vacation

You could try reducing how many apprentice and guru level items you have. Checking your profile right now shows that you have over 200 apprentice items and over 700 guru items. These items make up the bulk of your reviews daily. You could hold off on doing any more lessons (do your reviews! just no new items from the lessons stack) until you have closer to 100 apprentice items. This will reduce how many reviews you get every day, and therefore reduce how many you wake up to every morning.

Another option is to get a userscript that hides how many reviews you have. That way you don’t wake up and see over 200 reviews and start getting stressed out. Just do as many as you feel like and leave the rest for later.

The point of SRS is to space out your reviews by a preset amount. Putting your account on vacation mode every night is probably increasing your SRS intervals by quite a lot, so instead of seeing an item 1 week later as you should, you’re seeing it a week and a half later. It may not seem like much, but think about the longer intervals like 1 month or 6 months becoming 50% longer. While I understand your motivation for using vacation mode like this, it seems like it may be causing more issues than you realize.